A “thank you” You Take for Granted

March 10, 2010 at 7:32 AM | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Do you ever take the inside seat on the subway? You know, the one that leaves you completely trapped, such that as your stop approaches, you find yourself wondering how best to communicate to your seating partner that you need to travel across their lap, preferably not on it?

I was that seating partner today. Out of habit I angled myself toward the aisle so that the cornered woman beside me could get off. Completely immersed in my thoughts, I suddenly hear, “Thank you.”

Thank you? I looked up and saw the curly-haired woman walking away. And I’m usually the woman in the corner who says “Thank you.” The gesture made me smile.

You’re Beautiful

February 1, 2010 at 5:52 PM | Posted in Campaign | Leave a comment
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We’ve all had that day when we were little (or maybe more recently…) when some insecure kid at school called us ugly, or too round, or too angle-y, or too short, or too tall, or…the list goes on. And hopefully we all had someone put their arm around us and tell us, “You’re beautiful, you know that? And the kid who said that mean thing to you is probably insecure.”

It’s what’s on the inside that counts…Beauty is only skin deep…Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder…You’re beautiful inside and out. You know it. But have you heard it recently?

You are beautiful. And sometimes you need to hear it. Maybe someone you know needs to hear it. So tell someone: you’re beautiful!

Inspired by the Facebook event Tell Her She’s Beautiful, because sometimes we need to hear it for ourselves.

Help Haiti

February 1, 2010 at 12:10 PM | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

Haiti saw its worst earthquake in two centuries on Tuesday, January 12, 2010. Survivors drive up and down the streets calling the names of their loved ones, not knowing where they may be or what has happened to them. Those fortunate enough to have each other ponder about potential sources for food and water.

If you’re looking for an act of kindness right now, or you know someone affected by the disaster in Haiti, or you just care, you can help.

You can read my blog post on Changetomorrowsworld.com to learn how you can make a difference.

Love Letter

January 26, 2010 at 5:43 PM | Posted in Uncategorized | Leave a comment

I was walking to school when I saw a girl write something in the moisture of a bus shelter. She finished writing her word and started to walk away. Curious, I glanced at the glass wall and was surprised to see she had written “LOVE.”

How to keep a clean kitchen at work

January 25, 2010 at 2:28 PM | Posted in How to | Leave a comment
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Congratulations, you have a job! While work is, well, work, it can be a pleasant break from the clutter and/or pile of dirty dishes awaiting you at home. But if there’s one thing worse than cleaning up after lazy roommates, it’s cleaning up after fellow colleagues.

Here’s how to keep a clean kitchen at work.

  • Clean up after yourself. Don’t leave your dirty dishes in the sink—or worse, at your desk overnight. It’s unfair to everyone else who uses the kitchen, and you wouldn’t like to be stuck with someone else’s unidentifiable lunch remains, would you?
  • Now is better than later. Wash your dishes now; don’t leave them for later. Laziness is like the bacterial fungi that may appear on your food, if left alone long enough—it grows over time.
  • Rinse dishes before placing them in the dishwasher. It sounds counter-intuitive, but think about it. If a plate is heavy with chunks of food and it sits in the dishwasher, then when that machine turns on, the meat is going to spin and splosh and spray and…you get the picture.
  • Clean the refrigerator once a month. Draft up a schedule for fridge clean-up, assigning months to pairs of staff members. There are health consequences, so clean fridge and freezer tips may be useful.
  • Want to avoid kitchen politics altogether? Bring in your own dishes, wash them, and then bring them back home. That’s how I do it!

Here’s some inspiration for you—check out the Communal Fridge Blog for images of neglected refrigerators. I hope it doesn’t look familiar! Note: The blog isn’t quite up and running yet, but keep an eye on it!

Lesson #3: Be a nice helper

January 22, 2010 at 8:25 AM | Posted in Lessons in Kindness | Leave a comment
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Even if you’re giving a service, you can be nice about it. Yesterday I observed a friendly bus driver greet a passenger and strike up a conversation. He described his desire to visit the Ivory Coast and she nodded along. When I stepped off the bus a few stops later and thanked him, he answered in a tone so appreciative that he might as well have said, “My pleasure, thank you for riding the bus.”

Today, someone held a door open for me and when I thanked him, he said, “No prob” in a wonderfully casual way.

Be a nice helper. People will love receiving help from you and they’ll be eager to do something nice for you too.

Proverbial tree in the forest

January 20, 2010 at 7:26 PM | Posted in Thoughts | Leave a comment
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Forget the tree in the forest.

If you do a good deed and no one knows about it, does it matter?

My answer: It matters to the person you helped, even if they don’t know it.

Did you commit a kind act or sacrifice for someone? Report it anonymously on the I Wish You Knew Too page.

Lesson #2: One small action could save a life…or someone’s personal belonging

January 19, 2010 at 8:00 AM | Posted in Lessons in Kindness | 2 Comments

I was listening to music on the subway when I heard an angry “Excuse me. Excuse me. Excuse me!” It wasn’t until the third repetition that I looked up. The woman sitting across the aisle was trying to catch the attention of the passenger behind me. “You dropped something,” she added, and the grateful passenger thanked her.

How many times have you seen someone drop a glove or scarf on the subway? Did you let them know? That personal belonging could mean more than just a way of keeping warm; it might warm someone’s heart.

Three years ago I lost my glove—or so I thought. Not only was I left with one glove (rather useless, don’t you think?), but the missing glove was carrying a brooch that was meaningful to me, given to me by someone very special. Just as I was about to scold my other glove for not having gotten lost instead (it had no brooch on it), I spotted a flash of purple where I had been sitting—I was saved!

Lesson 1: Paying a compliment doesn’t cost you anything

January 18, 2010 at 9:15 PM | Posted in Lessons in Kindness | 3 Comments
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When I was preparing to make a left turn during my G-2 driving test, my examiner warned me, “Turn soon, ma’am.” Like most people, I do not enjoy orders given in a negative tone. What bothered me even more was the use of the word “ma’am”; that word makes me sound old. (And I’m not.) (Honestly.)

As I exited the Eaton Centre today, I wrapped my pashmina a recent Christmas gift around my neck, to protect me from the bitter cold. As I walked away from the centre, a man cuddled inside a grey winter coat pleaded, “Some change, ma’am?” I smiled at him but continued toward my destination.

For the first time, “ma’am” did not sound old, because it came from a man living on the street who wanted to pay me a bit of courtesy. That is certainly more than I gave him.

- Marisa

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